Positive Time-Out (Time-In) vs. Punitive Time-Out: What are the differences, and which is more effective? If you’re a parent, you’ve probably heard about time-outs, and maybe you’ve also heard about positive time-outs. Regardless of whom you’ve talked to or where you’ve learned about time-outs, the traditional time-out is very different from the positive time-out. Although … Continue reading Time-in vs Time-out
Advice for Parent-Teacher Conferences
In Montessori, we talk about teaching the whole child. This doesn’t just mean making sure the child has a well-rounded education that includes art, music, drama, etc; it also means we care greatly about the social/emotional education of our students. As a teacher, it might be thought that I would know how to parent my … Continue reading Advice for Parent-Teacher Conferences
The Prepared Environments of Maria and Marie
Would Maria Montessori and home organization guru, Marie Kondo, be friends? Each Montessori guide comes into their classroom envisioning what their prepared environment will be. This is one of Maria Montessori’s tenets. She said, “The teacher’s first duty is to watch over the environment, and this takes precedence over all the rest. Its influence is … Continue reading The Prepared Environments of Maria and Marie
Going Outs
Imagine you are an elementary student and you are working with a peer to write a report on a topic of interest. After you have used all of the resources available in your classroom, and you still want more information where can you go? Why should the information stop within the four walls of your … Continue reading Going Outs
Do What You Love: Becoming a Montessori Elementary Guide
I walked into AMI Elementary Montessori training in the sweltering Maryland summer of 2010. I had been out of college a short time and had recently found my way back to the Montessori school I grew up at. While trying to consider how to turn my American Culture degree (“Study what you love!” they said.) … Continue reading Do What You Love: Becoming a Montessori Elementary Guide
Toilet Training
One of the most human and possibly most underappreciated milestones that children master in the beginning of their young life is the completion of the much anticipated (by their parents) toilet learning. Aside from sleep it is probably the most discussed, lamented and celebrated topic between parents and teachers in a Montessori toddler community. Whether … Continue reading Toilet Training
Farm Days at Wavecrest
Each Thursday, the adolescent class of SCM called Wavecrest Adolescent Community loads up into the SCM bus and three other vehicles to head to Live Earth Farm in Corralitos. This is the way our adolescent program honors Dr. Montessori’s vision that the adolescent needs to be attached to a farm and in nature. In her … Continue reading Farm Days at Wavecrest
The Power of Yet
Has your child ever told you they “can’t do it” or they are just “no good at” something? As a parent, it is sad to hear your child express this about themselves. It can be especially difficult when you know your child is capable, but it is just going to take time and practice for … Continue reading The Power of Yet
Peace in the World to Come
“Peace is a goal that can be attained only through common accord, and the means to achieve this unity for peace are two-fold: first, an immediate effort to resolve conflicts without recourse to violence - in other words, to prevent war - and second, a long term effort to establish a lasting peace among men. … Continue reading Peace in the World to Come
Conflict Resolution in a Primary Montessori Classroom
A few months ago, a parent let me know their child overheard her and her husband having a disagreement, and confidently suggested they both use an “I message” to resolve their conflict. Her child had only been attending her new Montessori classroom for a short time and the mom was surprised to hear her four … Continue reading Conflict Resolution in a Primary Montessori Classroom
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